It's hard for me to stay mad at people that I care about. Even if they did or said something very wrong and hurtful.
They way I look at people is, they all have a good side to them. And they all have hurts.
Whether minor or big.
Those hurts stick with you and your subconscious mind acts a certain way to make sure that, that hurt doesn't happen again. Like a barrier.
So when people act out to me or something I do get upset or mad but instead of blowing a top and arguing with them, I sit there and talk to them. Tell them how that was rude or mean and explain to them how they can fix it.
People do they things they do for a reason. It can be because of the past or a current situation.
We have to be there for them to help them and get them on the right path.
Sincerely, the girl with a complex mind.
Monday, April 29, 2013
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Forgiveness
I love the band "My Chemical Romance" they recently said that there done making music. Well a 30 year-old guy who was once in the band in the beginning got kicked out for his lack of performance.
That was 10 years ago.
After the news of them ending came out he tweeted "Finally. I can sleep peacefully now"
obviously fans were pretty upset about that. But I talked to him and said that he could let go and forgive them. It was a while ago. People make mistakes.
He replied "Somethings can't be forgiven"
The thing that annoyed me the most is that all that happened was he got kicked out. They might have been rude or mean about it but that's all.
I met a friend who her parents tried to abort her. She was abused all throughout her young life and was severally depressed because of it. There's a lot more to it but that's all I'm gonna say.
Well she is 18 and she has completely forgiven her parents for what they've done. Her mom doesn't want to see her but she doesn't care. She still loves her and tries to help her.
My thing is. If she can forgive that, than he can forgive being kicked out of a band.
Nothing is unforgivable. You have a choice.
Sincerely, the girl with a complex mind.
That was 10 years ago.
After the news of them ending came out he tweeted "Finally. I can sleep peacefully now"
obviously fans were pretty upset about that. But I talked to him and said that he could let go and forgive them. It was a while ago. People make mistakes.
He replied "Somethings can't be forgiven"
The thing that annoyed me the most is that all that happened was he got kicked out. They might have been rude or mean about it but that's all.
I met a friend who her parents tried to abort her. She was abused all throughout her young life and was severally depressed because of it. There's a lot more to it but that's all I'm gonna say.
Well she is 18 and she has completely forgiven her parents for what they've done. Her mom doesn't want to see her but she doesn't care. She still loves her and tries to help her.
My thing is. If she can forgive that, than he can forgive being kicked out of a band.
Nothing is unforgivable. You have a choice.
Sincerely, the girl with a complex mind.
Corruption in People
Everyone and everything is corrupted.
whether a company, family, government or person. we all have a good side and a bad side. We all act like jerks at times and say things we regret. It's how we react to those situations that show us what we truly are.
Arrogant?
Rude?
Selfish?
Apologetic?
Understanding?
Kindhearted?
Anna Frank said something once about how you only, truly know someone when you have a fight with them. And it's true. There personality comes out.
The point of this is for you to understand that people aren't perfect and if you're going to end a friendship or relationship over a simple argument then you might as well not even try. There will be fights and things said that shouldn't be said at time. But it's the heart that counts. If you know that, that person really does care about you than don't end it because of that. Work through it. You get closer to each other after you do it. You understand one another more.
Sincerely, a girl with a complex mind.
whether a company, family, government or person. we all have a good side and a bad side. We all act like jerks at times and say things we regret. It's how we react to those situations that show us what we truly are.
Arrogant?
Rude?
Selfish?
Apologetic?
Understanding?
Kindhearted?
Anna Frank said something once about how you only, truly know someone when you have a fight with them. And it's true. There personality comes out.
The point of this is for you to understand that people aren't perfect and if you're going to end a friendship or relationship over a simple argument then you might as well not even try. There will be fights and things said that shouldn't be said at time. But it's the heart that counts. If you know that, that person really does care about you than don't end it because of that. Work through it. You get closer to each other after you do it. You understand one another more.
Sincerely, a girl with a complex mind.
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